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how old were you when you got married

15-19
22
39%
20-24
21
37%
25-29
8
14%
30 or above
6
11%
 
Total votes: 57

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Postby Darling » February 7th, 2007, 10:59 am

I was 18 and Bill 2months shy of 21. Married 53 years.

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Postby Shellie » February 7th, 2007, 11:13 am

I was 18. I love him differently now than I did then, but I've always loved him. The first few years were hard because although we loved each other, it wasn't a mature love. Love matures over time regardless of how old you are when you get married. I would marry him all over again, time and time again.
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Postby Brenda » February 7th, 2007, 11:14 am

One month, one day after I turned.. 17.

Hubby was 20.

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Postby lady4jc » February 7th, 2007, 2:14 pm

Was 19 when I married. My husband was 20. Was married July 15, 1978. A year after we graduated high school. So yes I did marry my high school sweet heart. :D

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Postby Susie Hamilton » February 7th, 2007, 2:32 pm

Wasn't a choice for never married. I was engaged twice but neither worked out. Sometimes I look back and say what if, but I am happy and very set in my ways. I have my dog, family and good friends
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Postby ImaPK » February 7th, 2007, 3:35 pm

Like Rambo, which time? :lol: ...1st time 2 months short of 22...except for the two sons she gave me, it was the second biggest mistake of my life :wink:
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Postby Pastor Don » February 7th, 2007, 5:54 pm

Teach; I think you know about Sandra and I, I think I shared it with you and Matthew and a couple of other LATE one night during one of our talk sessions at camp, but I'll share here, cause I love the story.

Sandra and I met for the 1st time on July 27th, 1985 at the Council Bluffs, Iowa CoGoP during state convention. We only spoke to each other casually during the convention. We did not even see each other again until September 5th of that year, when we had our first date. We dated three times, September 5,7, and 8, (don't even ask about the 6th). Then, we did not see each other again until October 5th. That night I asked her if she wanted to get married, She said yes. We married on November 29, 1985 just over 21 years ago... I was 22, and she was, well let's just say she was a little older. She had moved to Iowa with her family from Alabama, and I had come to "visit" my family that had moved to Iowa to pastor, after spending 2 years in Spain.

As others have already said, the best thing other than the love of Christ that has ever happened to me. I was truly blessed with a wonderful, beautiful, caring, and supportive BEST FRIEND and WIFE!

I know, I know, you didn't ask for all of that, but hey, like I said, I love the story!

God bless...
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Postby angelmom » February 7th, 2007, 6:32 pm

We married in Oct and I was 19. I turned 20 in December.

My husband turned 19 in October right before we were married.

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Postby teach » February 8th, 2007, 5:02 am

Pastor Don wrote:Teach; I think you know about Sandra and I, I think I shared it with you and Matthew and a couple of other LATE one night during one of our talk sessions at camp, but I'll share here, cause I love the story.

Sandra and I met for the 1st time on July 27th, 1985 at the Council Bluffs, Iowa CoGoP during state convention. We only spoke to each other casually during the convention. We did not even see each other again until September 5th of that year, when we had our first date. We dated three times, September 5,7, and 8, (don't even ask about the 6th). Then, we did not see each other again until October 5th. That night I asked her if she wanted to get married, She said yes. We married on November 29, 1985 just over 21 years ago... I was 22, and she was, well let's just say she was a little older. She had moved to Iowa with her family from Alabama, and I had come to "visit" my family that had moved to Iowa to pastor, after spending 2 years in Spain.

As others have already said, the best thing other than the love of Christ that has ever happened to me. I was truly blessed with a wonderful, beautiful, caring, and supportive BEST FRIEND and WIFE!

I know, I know, you didn't ask for all of that, but hey, like I said, I love the story!

God bless...


I do remember that! man, that was a long time ago. I think it was at a minister's convention.

GREAT story!

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Postby beth37311 » February 8th, 2007, 5:23 am

We married on my 30th birthday, Robert was almost 41. We'd met less than a year earlier. He went home to be with the Lord 9 years and two months later. :cry:

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Postby teach » February 8th, 2007, 5:57 am

wow, the 15-19 age category has the largest percentage! I find that interesting.

Most people these days wait until at least their early 20's to get married.

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Postby Ilovebigcats » February 8th, 2007, 7:12 am

Due to state law we had to wait until we were both 18.
I turned 18 in August.
He turned 18 in September.
We were married in October.

13.5 years and 6 kids later...

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Postby turbotim » February 8th, 2007, 7:16 am

The age for getting married has increased a lot. Two or three years ago the average age for women to get married was 25. For men, the average age was 26. I'm sure that's pretty close today. I'm not sure what it used to be.
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Postby teach » February 8th, 2007, 7:20 am

turbotim wrote:The age for getting married has increased a lot. Two or three years ago the average age for women to get married was 25. For men, the average age was 26. I'm sure that's pretty close today. I'm not sure what it used to be.


that sounds about right timothy!

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Postby RuSKY » February 8th, 2007, 8:06 am

We married when I was 24, one month shy of 25. She was 17 1/2.

We dated for only three weeks when I ask her to marry me.
She said,"yes."
And, 34+ years, 3 kids and 2 grand kids we are still at it.
She is the best example of a christian of anyone I know.
She is my best friend, my lover, and my care giver when I'm sick.
I can't begin to tell you how much I still love her, and how truly blessed I am to have her.
Although, I don't know what she finds in me, to have stayed around for all these years.
If we make it to March 11 it will be 35 years.

"He that findeth a wife, findeth a good thing."

I am retired and she is still employed.

I do 99 % of the cooking and have a hot meal ready each evening when she gets home. I do a lot of the laundry, she does the cleaning. I make her coffee and bring it to her as she does her hair in the mornings
I think of the lines of the old song, "sweeter gets my journey everyday."

Oh, BTW, did I tell you We have 2 Grand kids? A 3 1/2 year old girl and a 3 month old boy. And they are wonderful!!


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