I think I will weigh in with this one.... I kinda think that I likely have more experience here than any one on this board.
I lived the "I will come for what ever you give " life for many years....20 to be exact. While my friends were pastoring "limit " churches and "doing " a few meetings in the year, I and my family were on the road full time in evangelism. If you want horror stories about this issue, I can curl your hair with them.
First, a church, like a family, should operate within it's means. If you know that an offering for a speaker is generally $50.00, then by all means the speaker should be told that " we normally see about a $50.00 offering. Then let him decide if he can possibly do that. With gas prices what they are today and food and rooms....(do people actually get rooms provided?) a $75.00 offering is not even logical. If your church is going to invite someone, and you feel that it will bless your church in the future, INVEST, in that person....have a yard sale, sell pies. whatever it takes to get a reasonable amount.
I understand Shellie's post, but it is seriously flawed. If the church you pastored, paid you and Scooter per hour, and expected a certain amount of work for that....how much would you actually make? Granted I don't have a clue ...nor do I have any interest in knowing what you get...but this is just not a reasonable statement...that they should just take whatever they get....you know what it normally is.
And then, there is the issue of WHY you invite people anyway. What is this investment going to provide for my church? Why am I having this person speak? If it is just to be nice and give someone a little help on their vacation expenses , then that is the wrong motive and I abhor that kind of attitude anyway. It is NOT fair to the congregation. I have four preachers on my staff besides me that can outpreach most people I hear on tv...for me to bring someone in ...it has to be extremely important to the vision of this church,....ie Dr. Van Deventer.
As for singing groups, why pay them more than your guest speaker?. Dewayne knows a great deal about this.....I have an Elvis impersonator in my church who gets an unbelievable amount for his shows....he is the top impersonator in business....and people pay big to get him. He does free shows for the church!!!!! But they pay that because he is going to generate big business for them. His last show sold over 12000 tickets. He did live albums in Hawaii...and all that stuff.
Anyway, to the original question.....Do NOT invite anyone without letting them know what to expect.....especially if that is how they make their living.
Paul,I know whereof you speak...I have had unspeakable horrors done to me......
Btw, I know from experience that COGOP is the "cheapest " outfit in ministry! I spoke for a group the other day and the "stipend" was $500.00. In COGOP, they would have said. "We will buy your meal"...and NO I am not bashing your organization.....I have lived that life more than you all.....I have earned the right to make these statements.
So, pick it up guys and become generous!!!!!!
Dr. Ron