Well... that's how you get RID of Tom. But to change your top friends you can click 'change my "top friends."'
On that screen you can drag the friend to the proper order. You can make it your top 4, 8, 12, 16, etc...
You will also find lots of things to do if you hit "Edit profile" after you click home. Loads of junkity junk. If you get that done then you will soon learn how to change your background.
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