While we're on Swaggert...How about NY Gov. Spitzer?

[MacUser]

I noticed you ladies stayed away from the comment on "legalized prostitution "....

Yea.. but the Married Women have a out clause on that one Dr. Ron.. Hebrews 13:4

[Dr. Ron]

Nope .....sorry macuser.....that one don't fly!

[Sherry]

I noticed you ladies stayed away from the comment on "legalized prostitution " and went straight for the "gay" comment....

I've never used sex to get what I want. I enjoy it as much as my husband does.

As for the "gay" comment Shellie made....come on now...it was funny!

[Dr. Ron]

I was just messing with you ladies......but it does happen far too often.

Keep on lovin' your man and maybe the bank roll will be all yours.

[Pastor Gary]

I've never used sex to get what I want. I enjoy it as much as my husband does.

Perhaps not, but you and I both know that many women control their husbands by how they ration access to sex. If he says something in the wrong tone of voice, he knows he will be denied access for a day (or more). If he disappoints her in any way, she suddenly "is not in the mood."

Women sometimes say "How can you even think of sex when you have treated me ________"

That is a form of using sex to get what she wants. I hear these stories all the time in my office, and it seems pretty manipulative to me.

[Dr. Ron]

You are on the right track there Gary.

However, many women use these tactics without understanding that it is manipulation. Some women are reacting the way they have seen it modeled in their homes.

I had one whose mother told her to withhold sex from her husband. She told him what her mother said .....and he called the mother at 1 am and told her to come and get her daughter. The daughter was a basket case because the mother had been the one to teach her this and while it worked with the mother's husband (dad), it didn't work with the young husband.

The marriage is doing well and both are happy. The mother doesn't offer suggestions anymore!

[Sherry]

Perhaps not, but you and I both know that many women control their husbands by how they ration access to sex. If he says something in the wrong tone of voice, he knows he will be denied access for a day (or more). If he disappoints her in any way, she suddenly "is not in the mood."

Women sometimes say "How can you even think of sex when you have treated me ________"

That is a form of using sex to get what she wants. I hear these stories all the time in my office, and it seems pretty manipulative to me.

I agree with you, and I've heard women say those things...friends of mine, matter of fact. They are also the ones that have a multitude of martial problems.

[MacUser]

I must say. It's true. We have incredible women on Jude2.

I thought mine was the only one! But no, others do exist.

[dolfan]

Anyone notice the resemblance between Spitzer and LSU head coach Les Miles?

He looks a lot like Bill Cowher here:

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HE DOES!!!!

[dolfan]

Vande wrote:

Well, more accurately, there are some that might seem worth $80.000 before, but none that seem like it afterwards. I think buyers remorse would kick in pretty hard...

Well, you know what they say....

Love is grand.....Divorce is a hundred grand.

Alright, you've just supplied my new signature. I have not heard that, and I'm changing it to ten grand (lower class clientele).

[Shellie]

dolfan wrote:

Alright, you've just supplied my new signature. I have not heard that, and I'm changing it to ten grand (lower class clientele).