Postby dolfan » September 14th, 2009, 4:02 am
Pedophilia and homosexuality are not the same thing. There's no link between them in terms of a homosexual being more likely than a heterosexual to commit pedophilia.
The awful thing about pedophilia, the morally repulsive thing about it, is the exploitation of innocence. Culturally, sexual activity with children has seen many variations of "acceptable age" of activity over time. Ancient Greece, for example, commonly saw what we might now call pedophilia (pederasty --- involving adolescent boys and grown men --- is generally illegal depending on what state you're in and the precise ages involved, and may not be considered "pedophilia" in the strictest linguistic sense).
But, stepping away from the arguments on boundaries, pedophilia is its own brand of evil.
Pope John Paul II said of the pedophile priests, "As priests, we are personally and profoundly afflicted by the sins of some of our brothers who have betrayed the grace of ordination in succumbing even to the most grievous forms of the mystery of evil at work in the world." Certainly, some of the priest abuse was "pederasty"; many accounts abound as to actual pedophilia, too.
What is this "most grievous form" of evil? Why is it that evil? Well, exploitation is one part, another is selfishness, another is the sheer destruction of the innocent child. I think the latter is the most significant, in terms of grievousness. Substantial resources are devoted now to ferreting out pedophiles, punishing them, and countless more are devoted to dealing with the fallout. That's such a nice, neat word --- fallout. Truth is, the indescribable, tragic wreck of the soul that it wreaks on children is the "fallout". There's no volume of dictionaries or clinical journals with enough long words to convey the actual lifelong harm done to children who are victims of other people's perverse desires. Many children, more than you can count, would be what most folks would call "better off dead"; I mean that in the way the phrase gets used to describe the average person's reaction at hearing about unspeakable, inexplicable suffering. Most people would recoil to the point of preferring that someone be dead than to suffer horribly, inescapably, and for a long time. But, most people don't really, truly know the sufferings of these children in the present and for life. Even with what I've seen and do know about, not having been a victim of it, I can't say I really "know" either.
Examples probably are the best way to convey the horror of it. Out of respect for the board, though, I won't venture down that road. Suffice it to say, though, that the behavior by perpetrators is purely selfish, oftentimes growing from having been abused (that's an ugly truth about pedophilia). That selfishness is manifest in the secrecy in which they conduct themselves, the threats and manipulations the abusers employ to trap their prey and torture them for self-protection. It is also evident in the way they often react after being discovered. I know of one local man several years ago who, upon having been found out and then confronted by local investigators, did the one just thing I think he could've done, and that was to commit suicide. He didn't last 3 days after his game was outed. And, fittingly, it was a bizarre method he chose to do it and one that caused his demise to be slow and painful --- something he probably did not intend. Denial, obfuscation, accusations and excuses that know no end or boundary often follow. The very shamefulness of the allegation of being a pedophile is known all too well by many of them, and they often appear the most appalled at the accusations against them.
Then, there is another variety of pedophile: the one who really doesn't even go to the trouble of regretting it. This is the one who stands in court in a near catatonic state and rotely states his realization of his problem and his plans to rehabilitate. There's not a bullet in existence that is fast enough to bring that person to justice. They say "it is not my fault" or "this is something I've wrestled with all of my life." They typically blame the victim or someone else, and/or they simply say 'I was born like this'. Neither is acceptable, and neither is recoverable, IMO.
They are all reprobates.
This is nothing like homosexuality. Pedophilia does not cause homosexuality. Pedophilia is not caused by homosexuality. A person who rapes a woman, who commits adult sodomy, or who likes kinky things .... none of these is contributing factor to pedophilia. It is a pure form of evil.
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