It's interesting that this has come up!
TW said:
While reality is important, the real crux of the matter is in how people perceive that reality. To the optimist, the glass if half full, awaiting only the addition of more water. To the pessimist, the glass is half empty, denoting that a portion of the contents are missing.
Probably the reason I first said I didn't want to hear anything negative: I co-teach with singularly the MOST NEGATIVE person I have ever met,
(and yes, I have met Gerald... 
) Most of the time I am able to get her up to reasonably pleasant, but often she has extreme negative reactions to anything and everything.
So, on Friday when we had our conference, I was sitting there thinking how wonderful it was, how much I was learning, and how thoughtfully and competently it had been put together by a team of creative and knowledgeable ladies.. when my co-worker, sitting at the table next to me, began to grumble and spew. Despite reactions from the others at our table, who were also enjoying the conference, she continued, while eating her snacks and reading an Avon catalog...
