My sister in law's husband is a music minister at a local COG church. They sing a lot of the P/W stuff. And, one day, my SIL and I were talking about the songs that are popular with young Christians now. She said that they are "dark" in their mood. She said that she didn't remember being that pessimistic and dark when she was young. It struck me that she's got a point. My wife has a Barlow Girl CD that I think is okay as far as style goes. There's a song called "I'm Never Alone" (I think that's the title), and my daughter loves it. Very somber tone to it, some pretty heart-wrenching emotions expressed, but my daughter apparently shares my ear for melodies and it appeals to her. She can sing it almost verbatim. But, it's dark sounding.
"I cried out with no reply
And I can't feel You by my side
So I'll hold tight to what I know
You're here and I"m never alone
And though I cannot see You
And I can't explain why
Such a deep, deep reassurance
You've placed in my life
We cannot separate
'Cause You're part of me
And though You're invisible
I'll trust the unseen"
That's not all of it, but enough to make the point. She asked me early after hearing it for the first time what it was about. I explained to her (and, yes, Gerald, it uses the 'You' -- and I am also not skippy about all that, but that's another post

) that it is a girl's prayer to God that she knows He is faithful to be with her even if she doesn't feel like He's there with her when bad things happen. I explained to her, and I think she understood, sometimes God gets very quiet and doesn't tell us He's with us when bad things happen. But, I explained, Jesus promised that He's always with us and that God has us in His hands even if we don't really feel like it. That's about as well as I could put words to it for her.
My point is that there is a dark tone to some songs, and my question is to you whether you think that these darker tones (even where the lyrics are not pushing any envelopes away from acknowledging God by name) are harmful or somehow not good? Personally, I don't think it is hurting anything and that we are often dark and in the dark, so why not sing about it. (Which reminds me, I told my daughter that there was a king of God's people who's son died as a baby and who lost his family and his own son tried to kill him, and that he prayed a song that sounded a lot like that one, and I paraphrased part of Psalm 139 that, "if I am in the sky, there you are; if I'm laying down with the dead, there you are; if I'm drowning, you're there").
Are some songs too dark?
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