I am not engaged any more....

RamboPreacher · Postby **RamboPreacher** » November 17th, 2007, 12:07 pm

prayer is happening, still.

justsam · Postby **justsam** » November 17th, 2007, 12:39 pm

It's better to be single than to be married to the wrong person.

God Bless You- Pastor Sam

Mike Vande · Postby **Mike Vande** » November 17th, 2007, 12:46 pm

pastorsam wrote:It's better to be single than to be married to the wrong person.

God Bless You- Pastor Sam

Oh, yes amen!

jessicacook · Postby **jessicacook** » November 17th, 2007, 1:16 pm

pastorsam wrote:It's better to be single than to be married to the wrong person.

God Bless You- Pastor Sam

That's exactly right!! You did the right thing, Wendy. We are proud and we love you. If you need us, you know where to find us.

teach · Postby **teach** » November 17th, 2007, 8:25 pm

guys, I really need alot of prayer right now. His family is basically calling me a hypocrit and beginning to spread lies about me. I know it is all just out of anger, but it is still hurtful.

Please pray that he will forgive me someday.

wendy k

Mister Ed · Postby **Mister Ed** » November 18th, 2007, 6:01 am

There's that saying about sticks and stones but I don't like it because words can and do hurt. But there is a healing that you can experience that the others may never have. Anyone who would believe a lie about you will go through life never knowing the real you, and they won't know what they are missing.

DaJudge · Postby **DaJudge** » November 18th, 2007, 8:44 am

teach wrote:His family is basically calling me a hypocrit and beginning to spread lies about me.

Aren't you glad these people will never be your in-laws?

Gerald Creasy · Postby **Gerald Creasy** » November 18th, 2007, 9:40 am

pastorsam wrote:It's better to be single than to be married to the wrong person.

God Bless You- Pastor Sam

YES!!

Especially if their beliefs are "completely wacko"

Did you explain what belief was considered "completly wacko"?

DeWayneTN · Postby **DeWayneTN** » November 18th, 2007, 10:46 am

Wendy, I'm praying for you. You'll be alright.

pitts47150 · Postby **pitts47150** » November 18th, 2007, 10:54 am

Praying here Wendy. There is someone that God has for you. When the time is right God will make it happen.

teach · Postby **teach** » November 18th, 2007, 11:41 am

Gerald Creasy wrote:
pastorsam wrote:It's better to be single than to be married to the wrong person.

God Bless You- Pastor Sam

YES!!

Especially if their beliefs are "completely wacko"

Did you explain what belief was considered "completly wacko"?

No, I just don't want to talk about that right now.

wendy k

teach · Postby **teach** » November 18th, 2007, 11:42 am

DaJudge wrote:
teach wrote:His family is basically calling me a hypocrit and beginning to spread lies about me.

Aren't you glad these people will never be your in-laws?

yes, very much so, but the one who is lying about me is the one who is marrying my nephew so she will be my niece-n-law.

wendy k

Mike Vande · Postby **Mike Vande** » November 18th, 2007, 12:23 pm

Darling sister, doing the right thing isn't always going to be rewarded with good things from your peers. Sometimes, they will crucify you.

I feel for you having to deal with spiteful slander on top of the emotional pain you already have to deal with, but pray for your enemies, and do good to those who spitefully use you. Feel sorry for them; they are the ones who will reap the whirlwind unless they repent.

Trying to defend yourself against that sort of slander will do nothing to change the minds of the ones who don't like you or what you did, and the ones who know you did the right thing already know better than to believe it. All it will do is extend the life of the story and offer validation to the accusers.

Let it go, refuse to harbor resentment for wrongs done to you in the Name of Jesus. And know that we love you and are praying for you, and that will too will pass...

Jennifer Smith · Postby **Jennifer Smith** » November 18th, 2007, 1:00 pm

We will also pray that he will understand what part of his beliefs are not right.. I believe God can reveal truth to him and show him where his thinking is off.

darylscook · Postby **darylscook** » November 18th, 2007, 1:19 pm

I just got one here. It's been a busy week/weekend. WOW Wen, know we are praying for you. I love you sis! If you ever need to just talk, know I am here. If not, know I am praying for you!!!!

God Bless You
Daryl

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