Kissing girls?

[Ilovebigcats]

I didn't read all the comments... I just skimmed.. but my daughter has pics of her kissing her best friends on the cheek. She has NEVER seen the Brittany Madonna thing. She doesn't have friends that would either. She would TOTALLY freak out and gag if you told her that people would think they were lesbian. They were just being friendly, loving, and taking a bunch of silly pictures. I agree with YR... don't lump them all together.

[RamboPreacher]

I didn't read all the comments... I just skimmed.. but my daughter has pics of her kissing her best friends on the cheek. She has NEVER seen the Brittany Madonna thing. She doesn't have friends that would either. She would TOTALLY freak out and gag if you told her that people would think they were lesbian. They were just being friendly, loving, and taking a bunch of silly pictures. I agree with YR... don't lump them all together.

Unfortunately it is difficult to no lump them together.

I visit many forums and sites with these avatars and pictures. I have never personally seen any that "appeared" to be platonic. Are there some? maybe and probably, but if someone is using a picture like that as thier avatar, or representative image, then it is the "popular" (read as predominantly/majority) paradigm to be "in" (we used to say kewl), or whatever is the expressed way of trying to be popular with the rest.

some kids may not realize that is what they are representing, but it is still what others see, none the less. do we need to cater to everyone? probably not, but be aware that the image that is being sent (even if it is "really" platonic), has seductive/sexual innuendo.

[Sherry]

There is innocent kissing though as YR is talking about. My wife and I know some very wealthy families and they always kiss on the lips (just a peck) when they greet you. It's just their culture and upbringing. The parents even greet their kids this way. It's just normal, nothing sexual.

Thank you. You got my point across better than I did and with a lot less words.

And for the record (hey that's become my new saying) I agree that the kissing pictures don't need to be on myspace, etc. I don't want anyone thinking I condone it.

[Shellie]

YR wrote:

I don't want anyone thinking I condone it.

Does this mean that I can't bribe you with a kiss to drive the car?

[Ilovebigcats]

In my opinion, men tend to look more at the physical. Women are looking at the emotional.





My 3 year old watching me load these pics beside me said, "Mom, whys Morgan love Caetie? Is Caetie her bes frien?"


They are loving and sweet toward each other. There is NOTHING sexual about it... unless it is in the mind of the perv looking.

[Sherry]

I don't want anyone thinking I condone it.

Does this mean that I can't bribe you with a kiss to drive the car?

Well................................................................

[panhandler]

PG said

"Fan" is not even close to the right word. I have never seen one of the videos; the late-night commercials are bad enough. I have read up on the filthy-rich guy who started the company, and how he induces drunk college girls to expose themselves and do embarrassing things for a free t-shirt, using a lot of peer pressure.

I am glad to read today that this sicko is still in jail after almost 1 year and his trial was just postponed again.

[Sherry]

PG said

"Fan" is not even close to the right word. I have never seen one of the videos; the late-night commercials are bad enough. I have read up on the filthy-rich guy who started the company, and how he induces drunk college girls to expose themselves and do embarrassing things for a free t-shirt, using a lot of peer pressure.

I am glad to read today that this sicko is still in jail after almost 1 year and his trial was just postponed again.

I couldn't agree more!! This (I can't type what I really want to call him ) pervert, used these girls for money. I've seen the commercials, I too always wondered what these girls thought when they saw themselves on TV, the humilation, the embarrassment that follows them. Can you imagine having to face your parents, your teachers, your pastor after you come home from Spring break and that airs???

All that for a lousy t-shirt?? I would love to ask one of those girls when they are in their thirties if it was worth that t-shirt.

Don't you know how many daddies (and momma's) are out there wanting to put that creep six feet under!

[Pastor Gary]

In my opinion, men tend to look more at the physical. Women are looking at the emotional.





My 3 year old watching me load these pics beside me said, "Mom, whys Morgan love Caetie? Is Caetie her bes frien?"


They are loving and sweet toward each other. There is NOTHING sexual about it... unless it is in the mind of the perv looking.

These are sweet, innocent girls showing normal affection, and not at all the kind of pictures being discussed. We are talking about girls connected at the mouth better than paramedics giving mouth-to-mouth, and doing it to shock/tittilate the viewers. Do I need to post exampkes?

[Dr. Ron]

Okay...you asked.

Pre-teen and early teen girls have always found unique ways of rebeling.

In the mid 90 s to early 2000s it was having a bi-racial baby out of wed-lock to saddle the parents with.....without any desire or intention of marrying the father. It was "cool rebellion"

Then actually around the year 2000 ( incidentally, about the time of the Bill Clinton sex scandal) girls began playing the rainbow game with guys...They carried a variety of lipstick colors and at the end of the school day the boy with the most colors won.........you can guess where the colors were.

Now the "rebellion of choice" is lesbianism or at least bi-sexual behaviors.....usually the last. Here in one local school, I went to a ball game and counted 22 couples ......all girl couples .......who were kissing and holding hands in the stands.....

It continues ..........and until parents get more involved..........the rebellion will increase .............and the boys will be glad....until they are
left out altogether.

[Ilovebigcats]

In my opinion, men tend to look more at the physical. Women are looking at the emotional.





My 3 year old watching me load these pics beside me said, "Mom, whys Morgan love Caetie? Is Caetie her bes frien?"


They are loving and sweet toward each other. There is NOTHING sexual about it... unless it is in the mind of the perv looking.

These are sweet, innocent girls showing normal affection, and not at all the kind of pictures being discussed. We are talking about girls connected at the mouth better than paramedics giving mouth-to-mouth, and doing it to shock/tittilate the viewers. Do I need to post exampkes?

I have some with them kissing and pretending to kiss. I wasn't sure their mother would approve.