I am so sorry you feel this way, but at the same time, it's hard to read that you are loving and forgiving enemies when you are talking about a church split.
Are you truly enemies? do you see these as enemies of God, or as brothers and sisters in Christ that you may disagree with?
I've been through what you are talking about, I've seen it, but I don't let it change my relationship with God, or His people.
Again, I don't know your church, and I don't know the details of what happened. Frankly I don't want to. BUT if past problems can't be left in the past and Christians stand together (even if that "together" is separately) then something doesn't fit with scripture.
I am not taking sides or saying who was right or wrong, but it seems to me that at some point scripturally we have to move ahead.
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