Karen wrote:Pastor Bill wrote:Karen wrote:YellowRose wrote:Karen, I agree with you, rude and tacky stuff. But bringing your dirty laundry into our laundry room for us to clean is also rude, don't you agree?
Rose,
I didn't see it as MY dirty laundry. I guess in a way it seemed to me to be similar to bringing someone before the church since this seems to be their home forum.
I think that was the point, the equivalent of bringing him before the church, would mean that you have already addressed this to him personally, as well as went to him with two or three others. Have you done that? or was this less about restoring a brother, and more about publicly showing his sin?
Actually,
It didn't cross my mind to PM them. Anyways, I have been attacked so many times by different people, it just didn't seem to really matter so I might just as well keep everything in the open and and in the light.
Have you thought that it many not have "crossed his mind" that you would be offended or that it would be taken in a way other than the joking way he says it was intended. (not taking up for him, but honestly you are pointing blame, that's not a christian attribute, and the fact that it didn't even cross your mind to handle this biblically, and when it's brought up you point out your being attacked rather than addressing your poor method of handling this shows that your intent is to draw attention to the sin of others and your own perceived martyrdom.
Let's take this from the beginning and handle it right.
[Karen in PM]Stevenson, that really seemed inappropriate[/Karen]
[Stevenson replies]Sorry, it was meant jokingly, didn't mean to offend you[/Stevenson]
[Karen]Thank you for apologizing, apology accepted[/Karen]
well wouldn't that have worked much better?
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