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Kenya wrote:Okay, know a little more.
He was wearing a "suit". Apparently, he fell on top of the other guy. Stood up, felt fine. Took the suit off and then passed out.
His family was moving to Texas but he begged them to stay in Ohio long enough for him to go to church camp. Wow.
Since his death, 75 teenagers at camp have given their lives to Christ.
Keep praying.
dolfan wrote:When my 19 year old niece was killed in a car accident about 3 years ago (well, an 18-wheeler basically mowed over the top of her car, so I don't know that it was a car accident, per se, but that's another story), she had just made a prayer list that included her father being saved. The night after her funeral, he did just that.
I've often thought about that since then. How do you respond to the death of your child? For my sister and her husband, it has been indescribably horrific. She is just not the same person, interminably sad and somewhat confused. Her husband, though saved, is in much the same way but, being a man, he's handled it differently than she has.
They turned her grave into a virtual shrine. Her tombstone has her picture actually in the stone (something new, apparently, at the time had been developed using computers --- astounding, really). She has three markers on her grave. Actual photographs are maintained. I have never seen anything quite like it. There is a bench next to the grave.
Now, my niece was very, very loved in her community. She had been her high school's mascot. She was, at the time she died, the mascot for her junior college. The high school now conducts a camp each summer for mascots and it is named for my niece. People really loved this girl and her death impacted a lot of people in a small community.
All that, though, is window dressing. I, and this is just me, don't see how all that helps the parent. I think, as in my sister's case, having other children gives you strength to carry on, wounded and irreversibly ripped open as you may be. You find a way to survive. I'm not so certain how parents, like myself, who have only 1 child might do that.
And, that's not to be morbid or anything, but you know, I've looked at my sister and I can't see her or think about her without all that sort of rolling through my head for a while. Then, I see this story about this kid sumo wrestling, and boom --- gone. I share the applause of people responding with commitments to Christ, really and I am not going to question that at all. That's just not my place. But, the reason I've said all this in a really long-winded and personal way is, how do the parents take comfort in the salvation of any number of these other kids? Really, how? It is nice to think that they would, but I really don't think it would move me that much as a parent whose child was just killed. I don't know that I would ever get to a place where I would care that that was a result. Maybe I would, I don't know. But, I'm going to be honest and, knowing me, I say I doubt it.
The son is in the arms of everything good, eternally. But, the parents. I just don't know what you can do for someone who loses their child. I've seen it, I've been close to people whose lives were pretty well destroyed afterward. The redemptive effect of carrying on will probably be known only to God. I don't know how parents who do bear up under that can look back and say "Oh, yes, I've made that count eternally." That's just a confession.
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