First Ray, now Clay (they rhyme with Gay)

[MrDanger]

And something I have talked about with Dr. Ron about in the past is a growing trend among youth to "experiment" with the same sex as a way of being a virgin till marriage.

Since they don't consider themselves gay/bi, then it's just experimenting and "doesn't count".

[Dr. Ron]

Mr. Danger is correct. The idea of staying "pure" is a big issue, but being dealt with in a different way.

Because Bill Clinton convinced that generation that oral sex was not "actually" sex, it makes it justifiable in their eyes as a substitute for sexual release but not really "sex". The AIDS epidemic is growing in girls from 13-15 at a faster rate than with gays.....too bad.

However, I have to be honest and say that this is not a new approach. It was very much alive in my generation as well. Girls wanting to stay pure until marriage, would use other techniques to satisfy their "partners" in hopes that they would "catch" their life partner. It was not unique then and it is not now....but it is more open now and more freely discussed, shown on tv, movies. myspace. etc.

We have to be aware of and for our kids. I pray for them everyday.