RaceRunner wrote:Pastor Bill wrote:Again I have to ask, so you never struggle with temptation or sin? That's funny because Paul talked about it, even Christ was tempted, how is it you are above that again?
If and when I choose MY Will over God's Will, then I am choosing my desires over God's desires. I will then open myself up to be drawn away OF MY OWN LUST and enticed.
I agree 100%, and as your brother, I would be glad to stand with you in times of struggle and help you to see God's will above your own, to pray for you for God's strength to overcome temptation, and find only His will in your life. I also believe you would do the same for me.
BUT why is it then when we suggest doing this for a homosexual we seem to get blasted about it?
Satan is always READY, WILLING AND ABLE to tempt anyone, anytime. He will find the person who is ready to place follow their own will above God's. That is when he strikes.
However, I don't have to fall victim or succumb to temptation at any time.
....there is always a way of escape.
1Co 10:13 There hath no temptation taken you but such as is common to man: but God is faithful, who will not suffer you to be tempted above that ye are able; but will with the temptation also make a way to escape, that ye may be able to bear it.
Temptation is not a sin...but my response to it can be sin. I can pet temptation, dwell on it, hang around it, succumb to it.....or I can RESIST IT.
I completely agree
I CERTAINLY DON'T have to live with it every day. For when I resist, Satan has to flee. (until he obviously sees that I am choosing my own will over God's again and swoops in to try again.)
The escape from temptation?
Jam 4:7-10 Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you. 8 Draw nigh to God, and he will draw nigh to you. Cleanse your hands, ye sinners; and purify your hearts, ye double minded 9 Be afflicted, and mourn, and weep: let your laughter be turned to mourning, and your joy to heaviness. 10 Humble yourselves in the sight of the Lord, and he shall lift you up.
no disagreement from me on this either
But we are to reach out to people and show the light of Christ that is within us to them. If we aren't reaching them with the Love of Christ, then we aren't doing as He commanded us.
Agreed. The ultimate expression of Love is Christ's deliverance.I never said you did, but You do have to show them the deliverer, and you can't do that while you are putting them down and pushing them away. How do you introduce someone to Him while pushing them away?
Exactly why would you think I am suggesting or condoning pushing them away?
Because you are rejecting those of us that are saying we should try to meet them where they are and introduce them to Christ. You are blasting us when we say we want to work with them to see that there is an escape, and insisting "They just need deliverance" and attacking those that are trying to reach out to them.
but that is exactly what you are coming across as saying. I may be misunderstanding you, but that is exactly what you seem to be saying even in this email when you state that you don't need to understand what they are going through (which implies that you don't care what they are going through) you just want to introduce them to the Deliverer, which is exactly what I want to do, but I also know you can't reach people if you don't care about them or don't take seriously the issues they are facing.
Then there's the problemo....Misunderstanding...Why would anyone..NOT CARE?
I don't know, which is why I was a concerned with your stance.
never disagreed with this, but to reach people and bring them to Christ, you first have to care enough about them to love them as Christ loved them. The message doesn't matter if no one is listening.
The message matters EVEN IF no one is listening. It IS possible to love as Christ loves and they will still not listen. His word will not return void. Isaiah 55:11 So shall my word be that goeth forth out of my mouth: it shall not return unto me void, but it shall accomplish that which I please, and it shall prosper in the thing whereto I sent it.
yes the message matters, but it doesn't matter to them, or draw them to God if they aren't listening, or are feeling pushed away. Christ sat down and ate with sinners, as he told them to turn from their sin. Today especially with homosexuality too often the church says, turn from your sin, then we'll sit down with you, and THAT is pushing people away.
So you are taking the time to disciple them, working with them to see things in their lives that are not pleasing to God and to understand that they need healing and deliverance, and helping them to learn to seek God? I assume that upon salvation that they still often have struggles with temptations that, prior to sanctification they have to work through, and they have to seek sanctification as well right?
Yep. But when you are DELIVERED (freed)...you are NO LONGER an alcoholic...a drug addict..or a homosexual. However, once you allow your will to come into direct conflict with God's will.....be tempted..you can succumb..you can choose to go back into that sin. Very possible. Once again. Free Will. Free Choice.
I agree, but the issue is up to that point, are we willing to work with people to get them there or not. To show them we care and let them see the light through the Love of Christ in us, and let them see that His grace is sufficient. That's difficult to show someone when we don't give them grace ourselves.
..........Then why is it that when we speak of doing this same thing for someone who is struggling with homosexuality that you find it so wrong?
I don't believe I did.
You've sure come across that way. I really hope that's all this has been is a misunderstanding, because we can't reach people for Christ, we can't introduce them to the deliverer they can't see his Grace if they aren't seeing it in us.
Amen, I'm glad we are seeing things more clearly now. No one here is justifying homosexuality, or saying people can't be freed from it, only that we have to be willing to see it as a sin/temptation like any other, and be willing to lift people up rather than pushing them away.I'm not assuming here, I'm describing what we are doing and you are attacking me for it, the only difference is that we are looking at all sins the same and NOT singling out homosexuality as a sin beyond our reach that needs to be cleaned before we can reach out to them.
Homosexuality, drug addiction, alcoholism cannot be cleaned up without the delivering power of Jesus Christ. But they will ONLY learn about this DELIVERING power WHEN we reach out to them. We KNOW that Jesus Christ can instantaneously deliver them FROM their struggles and sin. Why WOULD we not want to SHARE this wonderful news?[\quote]
I don't know, but many want to see the instantaneous deliverance before they will reach out, or require it to be instantaneous, when we know that for some it takes time for God to draw them, and even after salvation, it can take time for sanctification, it's not an instant thing upon salvation.Sorry about that, I never know who's behind the screen name, and I often forget, I don't mean to offend.
You can't offend me. Just reminded you.
I agree 100% with what these verses are saying, but no where here does it say we are going to be free from temptation, it in fact encourages us to endureth temptation and not be drawn away.
You are correct. We are not FREE from temptations. But the Word does say that we are tempted WHEN we are drawn drawn away of our own lusts and are enticed. Unfortunately, we seem to be OFTEN drawn away of our own lusts and have to bring our will back in line to God's will. Wouldn't happen so often if we stay prayed up and well read in God's word.[\quote]
I agree, as a mature Christian, this is basic, but for a new convert who has struggled with this type of sin for a long time, this takes work, and we have to be willing to put that work in to lift them up and help them as they stumble along until they are strong enough in the Lord to stand.yet when I say we need to understand these temptations faced by a homosexual, and stand with them in being vigilant against temptation, you feel I am teaching them to self-justify? That doesn't make any sense. Either I am misunderstanding you, or you are reading things into my posts that I am not saying.
Perhaps both.I have never said homosexuality was excused, acceptable or anything even close to that. I have said that we need to be willing to understand that these are real temptations for some people, and work as diligently to support them in standing strong as anyone else.
Agreed. But we still can be freed FROM them...and not have to live WITH them.
I agree, it's just not always immediate in a new convert's life, and that is unaccepted by many when it comes to homosexuality.I agree with these verses 100%, and feel it is our DUTY as the church to support one another in that perseverance, in that vigilance, that we all might endure till the end. And I believe that holds true no matter what temptations you face, no matter what sins are in your past, that Christ is the answer to them all, and as His church, we MUST bring that light to ALL even those who are caught up in the sins of homosexuality.
Agreed.


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