Mac, of course you don't accept the fact that you might be the one that is "so close"
You keep insisting that it's an either/or situation, assuming that if I consider the tithe, then I am not giving out of faith and love, and that is a false assumption. Lance you are doing the same.
Speaking of the Sabbath Christ explained that the Sabbath was created for man, not man for the sabbath, I would suggest that is true for all of OT law, it was not created to oppress or burden, but to guide and provide a standard to measure ourselves against.
Christ came not to abolish that law, but to fulfill it, to break the bondage and lift the burden of the law and provide grace, we all agree on that.
The difference we have is that in that you propose to throw aside the OT law completely while I suggest it still can be a good guide and standard we can use to check our hearts AS WE FOLLOW HIS SPIRIT, not instead of. Maybe I am just weaker, but throughout my life I have seen in myself and others a rend to slip back into old habits and lag behind at times in our following of the Spirit, the NT often warns of being drawn away by our own lusts, and this isn't talking about those that have no relationship to Christ, but even those that strive to seek Him daily.
While I am not under the law, I do recognize when my life starts crossing those lines that the law drew in the past, and I recognize that I may not be following as I need to. That Standard gives me a check when I'm not doing as well listening to the Spirit.
The law also provided me a guide as a young Christian learning to follow, when I was unsure of my ability to hear, when I was not confident in my walk, and for that I am thankful, not seeing it as a burden, but as a welcomed guide for my life, as I learned to lean and listen to His Spirit.
The law has it's purpose, even today, Christ taught from the law, He used it's examples, even followed it in His own life, that to me shows it is not an evil thing to be thrown out, but to be kept in proper perspective and context. and respected for what it is.
A verse comes to mind, it may not apply directly, but it parallels the heart of my understanding of law (knowledge) vs. Spirit.
I Corinthians 14:15-16 KJV wrote:What is it then? I will pray with the spirit, and I will pray with the understanding also: I will sing with the spirit, and I will sing with the understanding also.
Else when thou shalt bless with the spirit, how shall he that occupieth the room of the unlearned say Amen at thy giving of thanks, seeing he understandeth not what thou sayest?
I will serve God with my understanding (of the law) not as a burden, but as a testimony, a guide and an act of willing obedience, and I will serve him in Spirit by that leading as well. This does not mean I am not following the Spirit, but on the contrary, it is as he has led me and to do otherwise would go against what His Spirit has placed in my heart.
"Why would God allow Hitler his chapter in history? Why would God send a whale to swallow Jonah or turn a woman into a pillar of salt? Surely there were other ways. But I'll leave the particular methods of God to God."
-Spoken by David Abraham, Showdown by Ted Dekker