Postby dolfan » October 27th, 2005, 10:56 am
You know, PG, this is kind of embarrassing. I used a term that is no less explicit than many terms that get used on VS. I used a term that accurately describes bizarre behavior, a kind that contrasts with normal behavior like, say, trick-or-treating. I used that term to ridicule pagan rituals. It was not intended to be a vulgar term or just some gratuitous naughtiness. You, Shellie and everyone else for that matter, are entitled to your opinion. You are right because you are final on the board; you're not final because you're necessarily right.
My error was not in the usage of the term, but in responding publicly to the following. Scooter came on, publicly, and basically said I was close to being a pagan myself for using that term --- and I took issue with it, publicly. Then, Shellie edited my post to remove the "phrase" and PM'd me that she'd done so. Meanwhile, and this is key, I posted a response to Scooter without first seeing Shellie's PM to me. I didn't see her PM until I'd responded publicly to Scooter's rather judgmental post (speaking of inappropriate remarks). Then I saw Shellie's post, and then my response to Scooter got removed. Naturally, because they happened within seconds or minutes of each other, I figured, "Hey, Scooter didn't like my terminology and told Shellie." I objected to that publicly, and that was, indeed, wrong. And, Shellie (framing her flexing of her power in such a way that it would appear that I was trying to be "nasty" as she put it) invited me to take it back off the board. I did. She explained herself, and I agreed to just accept that and let it go. And I did.
Now, hours later, you've decided to pile on, and make it look further still like I was actually trying to be profane or something. Well, clap, clap. I don't know what in the world justifies that.
For everyone: I'm sorry I used a term that appeared on this board for less than 5 minutes earlier today. I'm sorry that the particular term was one that would have been considered distasteful. I'm sorry that this forum got cluttered and sidetracked with a completely inane conversation, one that wouldn't have happened had I kept it on the PM. The whole thing hardly justifies the attention being paid to it by you, PG, some 4 hours later after the thing had been dropped. I'd told Shellie in my last PM "no argument here. Duly noted." That was the end of it.
But, PG, you asking me, sarcastically, to suggest other perverse sexual activity labels for general publication is just a needless swipe. It adds to the notion that I was just "funning" or somehow trying to be ugly. That's just not true.
Human government bears the same relation to hell as the church bears to heaven. (David Lipscomb, On Civil Government, 72).